i’m sorry, but if you’re such a dumbass that you can’t figure out your finances, then you deserve every single debt that is flying your way right now.
currently, i’m not receiving an income - and i sit here and dream and want this this and this and whatever else… but those who do have one, need to sort their priorities out! sitting on a $4500 debt to your father, as well as about $2000 of your own personal debts does not mean “i should get a new tattoo!” or “lets go on a holiday!”. i don’t understand how people can run themselves into the ground with money! as soon as your income is put in your account, withdrawals should be made immediately to pay whatever you have to off, and if that means you go without eating fancy dinners or having a ‘pamper day’ then so fucking be it!
p.s. you’re 18! you shouldn’t be considering even having a child, and if i hear one more “ohh i wish i was pregnant” come out of your mouth i will flip. if your money handling skills show for anything, you shouldn’t be left alone with a frozen chicken!!!!!!!!!!!!!